Crossdressing Husband - Advice for the Female Partner
Have you either caught out or found out that your long term partner or husband cross dresses?
How did you feel when you found out?
I bet you wasn’t exactly over the moon was you?
Perhaps you went silent and listened to him or maybe you cried and screamed at him. Whatever you did I bet it was a great shock to you.
Now that you do know, it’s time to understand why he does it and what it means to both him and you.
A lot of crossdressers have a moral dilemma which is the fear of rejection, especially if they are in an established heterosexual relationship. For any crossdresser, telling their partner that they crossdress is a huge concern because let’s face it, it’s not exactly normal is it…or isn’t it?
One of the reasons you love your man is because he’s macho, the one who will protect you from danger and the one you feel safe and secure with. Going back to prehistoric times the man was the hunter and the provider.
I know this because I got a black eye once by someone who insulted my girlfriend, I stepped in and lamped him and he lamped me back. My girlfriend was forever grateful and she pampered me back to full health in ways that I only could imagine.
But how can he protect you if he’s wearing a dress!
Men crossdress for lots of different reasons and understanding the reason will go a long way towards the future of your relationship with him. Once you are over the initial shock take the time to listen what he has to say. Your partner will owe it to you to tell you as he has everything to loose if he doesn’t.